12 weeks.
One big change.
Build the certainty to go through with it. One step a day.
Maybe it's your job, a relationship, where you live, or something you've always wanted to try.
By spring, you could be living the life you keep thinking about.
- 12live online sessions
- Mondays1 to 2:30pm GMT
- 10 placesclosed group
- 30 Novfirst session
- £295about £25 a week
You know the one
You've had that conversation in your head a hundred times. Drafted the resignation. Rehearsed the talk. Priced the move. Then Monday arrives and you carry on. That's 52 Mondays a year. And underneath, the thought you avoid: one day you'll wish you'd tried.
Why it hasn't happened
The older you get, the longer your list of reasons not to. Every failure you remember. Every risk you can picture. So when the moment comes, you freeze and tell yourself not now. You put up with it another year. It's a habit, and habits change with practice.
You don't have to feel ready. You might never feel ready.
For 12 weeks you follow a daily practice called WIRED: one real step a day, small enough to feel safe, big enough to matter. You learn to listen to a different voice. The old one freezes you: "What if it goes wrong?" The you who has already made the change asks: "What's the next step?"
By week 12 you've taken 84 steps. You have a clear vision of the life you want and a path to get there, built around what matters most to you.
Don't know what your big change is? Week 1 is where you name it.
Can't make every Monday? Every session is recorded for the group.
Been planning this for years? Planning's the easy part. Here you practise acting on it, as the person you're becoming, fear and all.
The method: WIRED
A five-step daily practice that takes 10 to 15 minutes. In week 1 you name your mountain, the one big change. After that, each day you take one real step up it.
Witness: catch the old you in the act. Your mind tells familiar stories and your body pulls back before you've decided anything. Spot it and you have a choice.
Identify: choose who you're becoming. Picture the you who's already made the change. Pick one step towards them, small enough to do today, big enough to matter.
Rehearse: run it before you live it. Step into the moment, nerves and all. Practise what you'll say and do, so the real thing isn't your first go.
Execute: take the step. Become the change. When the old you tries to take over, take the step anyway. Small is fine. Real is the point. You start in week 1.
Do it again: make the new you familiar. Look at what happened, adjust, and take another step tomorrow. Keep going until what felt impossible feels natural.
How the 12 weeks run
Your mountain is named, you've taken a step every day since week 1, and you catch the old pattern as it starts.
You take steps you used to avoid, and you can handle the discomfort when it hits.
You've put in 84 days of real steps, and you have a 30-day plan to keep going.
Every week you bring what you tried, and what happened, to the group.
Who is running this
Group facilitator.
I've moved countries, changed cities, jobs and careers, and left relationships that weren't good for me. And the older I get, the harder the big ones are.
For more than fifteen years I was a photographer and filmmaker. Then I became a single father and put the camera down, so I started again. I studied psychotherapy and became a counsellor, coach and group facilitator.
This summer I left London after seven years. I'd known for five that I needed to, and every year I found a reason to stay. I told myself it would be harder to find work and I'd be lonely without my friends. So I set a date and moved anyway. None of it came true. It was the best decision I could have made.
Knowing what I wanted was never the problem. Acting while the old voice was talking was. So I built the group I wish I'd had: a small room, a clear method, and people who would notice if I went quiet.
WIRED in action
He came to me wanting to make a real difference in biotechnology and sustainability. He couldn't do it from inside OMV, but he was worried about leaving, and about whether he'd find a path that was right for him. Together we built the vision, strategy and steps for an independent, authentic path, and the trust in himself to follow it. He's now been elected the next President of the Federation of European Microbiological Societies, and he's exploring his options.
"I may not know the next step, but I trust myself much more to find it."
Like many CEOs, Josh was afraid of letting go. Taking on far too much had left him exhausted, and he knew the company couldn't grow that way. Change was essential, but Josh worried about what it would do to the company's culture, and he didn't know how to change himself. A few months on, he'd built systems that put real decisions in his team's hands. Josh had many more hours a week, his team's trust was back, and revenue was up.
"... None of which I would have acted upon in such a short space of time, had it not been for Ori."
What you get
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12 live online sessions
Mondays, 30 Nov to 22 Feb (rest week 28 Dec). Every session recorded.
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A small group
Ten people at most, the same faces every week. Someone notices if you go quiet.
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A private session
60 minutes with me, your change only. Normally £390.
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The WIRED workbook
Turns each day into one clear step.
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A private community
For the day you want to skip it.
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A 30-day plan
Keeps you moving after week 12.
Booking closes Sunday 29 November, 10pm GMT. Nobody joins once we start.
Come to the first session. Then decide.
If it isn't right for you, tell me within 24 hours of the first session ending. I'll refund you in full. No explanation needed.
Don't live with regret.
Let's make the change.
Start my 12 weeks
P.S. Late February arrives either way. You can reach it still thinking about it, or already living it.